Nothing defines the quality of life in a community more clearly than people who regard themselves, or whom the consensus chooses to regard, as mentally unwell.

– Renata Adler

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Dense Discovery
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Welcome to Issue 331!

Mar 25 2025

Every Wednesday night, a neighbour of mine transforms her kitchen into a communal hub. She cooks an extra large batch of dinner, opens her apartment door, and waits. Some evenings draw just two visitors, others attract ten or more. The meal itself is unimportant – what matters is the standing invitation, the reliable presence of her home as a place where residents can gather to collectively process their week and have a whine and a laugh together.

This weekly ritual embodies precisely what Rosie Spinks explores in her thoughtful essay on cultivating meaningful connections in our hyper-optimised lives – what she calls ‘building a village’.

Spinks reminds us to not start with expectations of deep friendships: “Our primary focus isn’t looking for friends here – we’re looking for people.” This feels refreshingly pragmatic: populate your daily life with more casual connections, allowing repeated encounters to transform some into something deeper.

“Acquaintances, neighbors, people you don’t have a ton in common with but may have reason to see regularly, people who know your name, people you feel comfortable asking a favor from because you know you can reciprocate one day, people who unexpectedly lift your spirits on a bad day because they happen to be there.”

Spinks identifies that the most effective spaces for nurturing these connections share certain characteristics: they require minimal financial investment, operate on predictable schedules without complex coordination, center around shared interests or needs, and exist within reasonable proximity to home. The idea is to remove the friction that so often prevents meaningful engagement.

Of course, there’s nothing new about gathering regularly in low-pressure settings – and yet, in our current landscape of frictionless transactions and algorithmically-curated isolation, these simple human connections have become almost radical acts.

“Is it really revolutionary to remind people to have local clubs, groups, and hangouts to show up to on a semi-weekly basis that don’t cost a lot of money? Unfortunately, in the context of the private equity simulation we increasingly live in, the answer is: yes, it is.”

“This function used to be filled by churches, sports leagues, civic groups and even restaurants and bars – all things that are on the decline in what Derek Thompson of The Atlantic recently dubbed ‘The Anti Social Century’. We now have to be actively on the look out for ways to connect. We have to act counter-culturally to this moment.”

I love Spinks’ direct prescription: “Go ahead and ignore the news if it means you gain the capacity to gather people together IRL in a repeating, low effort way.” Yes! We rarely find wisdom about living well in urgent headlines or polished social media personas. Perhaps nothing is more countercultural than shifting our gaze from screens to faces and rediscovering the irreplaceable richness of proximity.   – Kai

 

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Apps & Sites

Aspect

Photo management app

Aspect is a cross-platform photo organisation and management tool that helps photographers efficiently sort, tag and organise their image collections with an interface designed to streamline the workflow and make photo admin fast and fun. No subscriptions, no cloud.

Stackfield

Secure collab platform

Only recently came across Stackfield for the first time. It’s German-made and hosted collaboration and communication platform that combines task management, Slack-like chat, file sharing and calendar features in one workspace, with a focus on data privacy and GDPR compliance for businesses.

Jottacloud

EU cloud storage

Another EU-based alternative to Big US Tech: Jottacloud is a Norwegian-based cloud storage and backup service with secure file syncing, automatic photo backups and unlimited storage options with a strong emphasis on privacy and European data protection standards. Friends of DD enjoy a 15% discount on the first year of personal subscriptions. Become a Friend to access specials like this.

Papeer

News on your e-reader

A little tool that lets you create your own media feed based on RSS, websites, Substacks or even the subtitles of Youtube videos, that you can then synchronise with your e-reader (like Kindle) to comfortably read on an E Ink screen without distractions.

 

Worthy Five: Annie Mueller

Five recommendations by tech writer and long-time blogger Annie Mueller

A book worth reading:

I stumbled across James P. Carse’s Finite and Infinite Games in my early 30s and I am so thankful. It has profoundly changed the way I think and approach the world.

A concept worth understanding:

The open web as gift economy: the internet my kids experience is fundamentally different to the one I found growing up. We need to resist corporatisation and rebuild a web of connectivity and sharing.

An activity worth doing:

Start blogging; add your voice to our global public commons. Do stuff, make stuff, notice stuff, and tell us about it. (I use Pika because it’s easy to set up and fun to use.)

A recipe worth trying:

Candied jalapeños are my favourite topping to eat on basically anything. Sweet and spicy perfection.

A quote worth repeating:

“Unlike cynicism, hopefulness is hard-earned, makes demands upon us, and can often feel like the most indefensible and lonely place on Earth. Hopefulness is not a neutral position – it is adversarial. It is the warrior emotion that can lay waste to cynicism." – Nick Cave

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Books & Accessories

Careless People

Inside Facebook’s toxic power machine

A new, explosive insider memoir by former Facebook executive Sarah Wynn-Williams that exposes the toxic corporate culture, global power dynamics and questionable decisions made by Mark Zuckerberg, Sheryl Sandberg, and other leaders at one of the world’s most influential companies. “A deep, unflinching look at the role that social media has assumed in our lives, Careless People reveals the truth about the leaders of Facebook: how the more power they grasp, the less responsible they become and the consequences this has for all of us.”

Superbloom

How technologies of connection tear us apart

Ecological engineer Dr. Nadina Galle demonstrates how new technology can amplify nature’s power to safeguard our cities against climate threats while reconnecting humans with the natural world we’ve grown dangerously distant from. “Optimistic in spirit yet pragmatic in approach, Galle writes persuasively that the future of urban life depends on balancing the natural world with the technology that can help sustain it.”

 

Overheard on the Socials

Is it cost effective to save ourselves yet?

@bethsawin

 

Food for Thought

Keep coming back

Read

In yet another great piece, Rosie Spinks offers a practical formula for building community: create or find recurring, accessible gatherings that bring diverse people together without requiring significant planning or investment. She argues that by prioritising consistent presence in these shared spaces rather than pursuing immediate deep friendships, we naturally cultivate meaningful connections that are essential for combating isolation. “People can certainly turn into friends – as one reader wisely noted in a prior post, ‘quantity time leads to quality time’ – but in order for that to happen naturally, I’ve realized you have to orient your life so you can keep showing up to see them.”

There Is a Liberal Answer to Elon Musk

Read

Ezra Klein articulates a problem that’s plaguing many Western democracies: for an increasing amount of people their government seems to no longer sufficiently serve them and the innate inefficiencies of complex governing structures makes them turn towards extreme views. Musk’s DOGE taps into this trend and reveals a truth that liberal/left-leaning politicians need to face. The left, Klein argues, needs to present a more radical politics of abundance that proves government is capable of delivering infrastructure, housing and other essential needs. While I agree with the sentiment, I have my doubts that a politics of abundance can occur within planetary boundaries.

Leadership Over Measureship

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I’d love to see this approach get more air time: Paul Worthington argues that many companies are overly focused on data and metrics, leading to anti-human practices and a lack of innovation. He suggests that businesses should prioritise leadership that values human experience, qualitative insights and narrative-driven strategies – because it’s ultimately better for business. “The result [of measureship] is a brutalist business philosophy defined by its relentless optimization of the status quo for the corporation’s good at the expense of the customer. It also demonstrates all the hallmarks of exploitable competitive weakness, riddled as it is with predictable and observable problems.”

 

Aesthetically Pleasing

Alex Schaefer is an American artist known for his controversial paintings depicting banks on fire. His work gained significant attention during the aftermath of the 2008 financial crisis as his work is often interpreted as a political statement about the banking system, capitalism and financial institutions. (Also: In 2012 he was actually arrested at one point while painting a Chase bank in Los Angeles, as authorities were concerned his artwork might incite arson or other illegal activities.)

Rīm is a Montpellier-based graphic design agency. On their Insta account, they share a vast and growing collection of fictional poster designs.

Since 1999, Canadian photographer François Brunelle has brought together and captured look-alikes from around the world in his ongoing series I’m not a look-alike!

Font of the week: Proxina is an experimental combination font that includes 2 type faces with different styles and appearances for high impact display use.

 

Notable Numbers

5,282

A small environmental initiative in Colmar, France has distributed 5,282 free chickens to residents since 2015, diverting an estimated 273 tonnes of food waste from landfill while providing families with fresh eggs.

5

Women tend to outlive men around the world. In 2021, this difference amounted to a 5-year gap in global life expectancy: the average life expectancy was 73.8 years for women versus 68.4 years for men.

5,000

Some experts estimate between 5000 and 7000 tigers live in private facilities in the United States, from small roadside zoos with dingy cages to sprawling ranches that rival the size of accredited zoos. This number exceeds the fewer than 5000 tigers estimated to remain in the wild.

 

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