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Welcome to Issue 306!

Sep 17 2024 | Link to this issue

After sharing a link to the Grateful Living project last week, I’ve been dipping into their article library and found a few gems worth reflecting on. If you’re open to a bit of spiritual nudging, they offer some nicely framed observations that don’t come off as overly preachy.

One that caught my eye is Radical Belonging in an Age of Othering by Joe Primo, reminding us that in times of division and polarisation, we’re all particularly guilty of ‘othering’ – seeing certain people as less worthy. This behaviour is happening alongside our loneliness epidemic, and Primo suggests the two are closely intertwined:

“I think we need to ask whether we are sick from loneliness or from not belonging – to each other and ourselves. … Our entanglement with each other becomes disentangled. We are no longer woven. We are a single thread under tension, pulled taut. We are at risk of far more than fraying.”

“This pandemic of othering is sustained by binary thinking, which dismantles the inherent dignity of those different from us – religiously, racially, culturally, politically, intellectually, etc. Rather than thriving in relationship with each other, many groups find themselves in profound opposition. What is the point of this opposition? What are groups and people trying to protect? For some, it may be the comfort they find in their structure, order, and perspective. For some, it may be a desire to feel the nurturing and supportive sense of belonging, but the desire has become confused with fitting in.”

The cure to othering, as Primo explains, is belonging, and he makes an important distinction between belonging and simply ‘fitting in’:

“They are two very different experiences. One has a gatekeeper and requirements. The other is innate. Fitting in asks us to mould ourselves to things like ideologies, appearances, and dogmas. You can fit in if you subscribe to the group’s prescriptions. Belonging, on the other hand, is not about being affirmed for your likeness to others or your methodical virtue-keeping. Belonging is not interested in groupthink and mutual pats on the back. Belonging is where dignity, the sacred, and redemption meet. It is where you can be wholly you while also being in relationship with those wildly different from you. Belonging is a both/and.⁠”

The Grateful Living movement – rooted in spirituality but not tied to any specific religion – believes that practising gratitude can help pull us out of this othering and non-belonging hole we’ve dug ourselves into. Their core belief is simple: ‘Life is a gift.’ From this, they argue, we can nurture a perspective of gratitude that recognises the inherent value in all people.

Now, I’ll be honest – there’s only so much spiritual reading I can handle. But as a non-religious person, I do appreciate the occasional sip of spiritual advice, especially when it offers timely reflections on connection and belonging in a world that seems to be pulling apart. – Kai

 

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Apps & Sites

Roamcalm →

Clutter-free travel planner

Amid the many travel planning apps I’ve featured in the past, Roamcalm stands out for its no-frills approach: add your flights, hotels and activities, then share it with a friend/travel companion; split costs; save important documents; track flights. All of it within a web-based app that costs just $3/year. I actually love that ‘not an AI itinerary generator’ is a selling point.

Logseq →

Open-source Notion alternative

Logseq describes itself as a ‘networked outliner’ where you capture thoughts, to-dos, notes etc. in blocks that can create branches to other pages. It’s not unlike Notion, with a few unique features such as built-in whiteboards and flashcards. Downloads are available for all major platforms.

Polar →

Monetisation for developers

Polar allows software developers to make money from their apps, specifically their open-source work. Developers can offer digital products and premium content via community memberships. A cool feature is crowdfunded GitHub issues: get issues resolved when a certain amount of money is raised, then split the funding with contributors.

Play DOS Games →

Retro games in the browser

Bring back some childhood memories by playing old DOS games right in your browser – over 600 of them! Browse by category or release year. Two of my favourites: Day of the Tentacle and Indian Jones and the Fate of Atlantis.

 

Worthy Five: Giovanna Crise

Five recommendations by multidisciplinary designer and daydream queen Giovanna Crise

A piece of advice worth passing on:

When I felt little excitement to continue with a project, a friend pointed out to me that what I had done that day “didn’t exist this morning”. Progress can come in tiny steps, but it still brings us closer to completion.

A book worth reading:

Ways of Seeing by John Berger is a great book for many reasons, but specifically the last chapter caught my attention. He digs into how capitalism has turned art into just another tool for advertising, stripping it of its original meaning.

An activity worth doing:

Running, because it always leaves me with a sense of pleasure and pride at the end. Two apps that have really helped me are 5K Runner and Nike Run Club.

A concept worth understanding:

I’m slowly accepting and understanding the concept of ‘failing’. Whether it’s doing a musical without a voice (yes, it happened to me) or changing a project halfway through and ending up with a result different from what you expected. To accept failure and move forward with a smile.

A podcast worth listening to:

There is a great podcast by The Atlantic that changes its name every season: It started as ‘How to Build a Better Life’, then became ‘How to Start Over’, and now it’s called ‘How to Know What’s Real’. It’s hard to find episodes that are not interesting!

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Books & Accessories

Why We Remember →

Unlocking the power of memory

Prominent neuroscientist and psychologist Charan Ranganath takes us on a tour of the intricate workings of human memory and its crucial role in shaping our identity and experiences. “Memory, Dr. Ranganath shows, is a highly transformative force that shapes how we experience the world in often invisible and sometimes destructive ways. Knowing this can help us with daily remembering tasks, like finding our keys, and with the challenge of memory loss as we age.”

How the World Made the West →

The global roots of Western civilisation

Award-winning Oxford history professor Josephine explores the global influences that shaped Western civilisation, highlighting the many contributions from diverse cultures and regions over millennia. “Reducing the backstory of the modern West to a narrative that focuses on Greece and Rome impoverishes our view of the past. Quinn locates the roots of the modern West in everything from the law codes of Babylon, Assyrian irrigation, and the Phoenician art of sail to Indian literature, Arabic scholarship, and the metalworking riders of the Steppe, to name just a few examples.”

 

Overheard on Mastodon

Grant me the serenity to accept the things I can’t change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to think of reasonable sounding ways to blame other people for things I could totally change but consistently don’t.

@AliceFraser@mastodonapp.uk

 

Food for Thought

Radical Belonging in an Age of Othering →

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Writing for Grateful Living, Joe Primo explores the interconnected issues of loneliness, belonging, and ‘othering’ in modern society. He argues that practising gratitude and embracing ‘radical belonging’ can counteract the damaging effects of isolation and binary thinking, ultimately fostering a more connected and compassionate world. “This perspective challenges you to observe someone’s worth or worthiness, even when it is far from sight. Worthy of what, you might ask. Well, what are you worthy of in your life? Love, acceptance, safety, nourishment, shelter, redemption, and connection are a few things your dignity bestows on you. When we individually or collectively other, we strip people of this worthiness. We categorize people into good and bad, worthy and unworthy. We need to ask ourselves how anyone can survive these dichotomies. The response to loneliness and ‘othering’ must be radical belonging – this is the challenge, this is the work of grateful living.”

How Does the Language of Headlines Work? The Answer May Surprise You. →

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A great deep dive into the art and the science of headlines – these carefully crafted phrases designed to grab attention and entice readers to click. Headlines use intriguing language and emotional cues to create curiosity, often resembling advertising tactics. “Clickbait exploits what’s known as the curiosity gap, with just enough information to anticipate what the story might be about, which entices readers to click on the link to find out more. According to a 2015 study by researchers Blom and Hansen, one of the ways this is done is very simply through forward referencing to lure in readers. For example when we use a pronoun like he or she, it usually refers to a noun that’s been mentioned before, such as John or Mary. (‘Mary read a book. She liked it.’) But for successful clickbait headlines, it’s reversed to great rhetorical effect. (‘She did it, she read a book.’)”

Urban sprawl is a tragedy of the commons →

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Devon Zuegel argues that urban sprawl occurs because people always veer towards larger homes, leading to less dense neighbourhoods and fewer urban amenities. This creates a ‘Tragedy of the Commons’, where individual housing choices collectively result in an undersupply of vibrant, accessible urban areas. “Each of us tends to choose a larger homes than we want our neighbors to choose. Of course most people can't afford a mansion, but they will always want as much space as they can get. Financial constraints keep this dynamic from spiraling out of control, but at the margin there's constant pressure towards sprawl. The result: an undersupply of urban neighborhoods.”

 

Aesthetically Pleasing

This idea of pixelated art classics isn’t new, but I love Timur Zagirov’s execution with dyed wooden blocks in angled cuts.

Working in a combination of hand-painted and digital techniques, UK artist Henry Rivers creates richly textured artworks with a sense of calm and escapism. Prints are available from his Etsy shop. Friends of DD enjoy a 20% discount. Become a Friend to access specials like this.

I really enjoy the aerial photo series Lava Flow by talented Hungarian photographer Gábor Nagy capturing the colour, texture and movement of the lava outflows at the Littli-Hrútur eruption in Iceland in July 2023.

The blobby, bouncy and whimsical Spring Herbs comes with varying stroke weights, heights and sizes, plus four options for every letter!

 

Notable Numbers

100

Phoenix in Arizona hit 100°F (~38°C) for the 100th day in a row earlier this month, and the streak is still going. The previous 100-plus-degree streak was 76 days, set in 1993. Phoenix’s average temperature of the meteorological summer (June–August) was 98.9°F – beating the record of 97°F from last year.

240

Most pennies produced by the US are given out as change but never spent; this creates an incessant demand for new pennies to replace them. A conservative estimate holds that there are 240 billion pennies lying around the US – about 724 ($7.24) for every man, woman and child. Minting a 1 cent coin costs more than 3 cents.

535

Every year, about 15 billion tons of fossil fuels are mined and extracted. That’s about 535 times more mining than a clean energy economy would require in 2040 – according to Distilled author Michael Thomas.

 

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